Norse Pagan Wedding at Berkeley Castle: Mel & Justin’s Epic Day

On a crisp November day, Mel and Justin, two unapologetic history buffs, stepped into the annals of time with a wedding that was as unique as their love story. Their Norse Pagan wedding at the legendary Berkeley Castle in Gloucestershire was a celebration steeped in history, symbolism, and just the right touch of magic. With nods to gaming, a sprinkling of crystals, and ancient traditions galore, this was no ordinary wedding — it was an epic saga come to life.

A Castle Fit for a Norse Love Story

What better setting for this historical and spiritual union than Berkeley Castle? This 900-year-old fortress, still inhabited to this day, provided the perfect backdrop for Mel and Justin’s enchanting day. Built in 1153, the castle has witnessed royal dramas, mysterious murders, and countless generations. For Mel and Justin, its rich history and medieval allure aligned seamlessly with their shared love of the past and Justin’s Norse Pagan faith.

Every corner of Berkeley Castle seemed to hum with ancient energy, creating an ambience that felt otherworldly. From its grand halls to its serene gardens, the venue captured the essence of a timeless love story — and on this day, it was all about Mel and Justin.

Norse Pagan Wedding: A Celebration of Love and Ancient Traditions

A Love Story Born in the Digital Age

Mel and Justin’s story began not in a castle but in the virtual realm of Discord during the pandemic. Mel was co-managing a server dedicated to pagan education, cosplay, and gaming — her passions rolled into one space. When Justin joined, their shared interests led to endless conversations, quickly forging a connection that transcended the digital divide.

Fast forward to December 2021: Mel flew across the Atlantic to meet Justin in Colorado. That first meeting was brimming with excitement, nerves, and an undeniable sense of destiny. Their relationship blossomed like a saga penned by the gods, culminating in a proposal straight out of a Viking tale. At The Bletchley, a WWII-themed bar in Chelsea, Justin unveiled a puzzle etched with Norse runes. When solved, it revealed a simple yet powerful question: “Marry me?”

A Ceremony Filled with Norse Pagan Traditions

At the heart of their wedding was a ceremony rich in symbolism and intention, drawing on Norse Pagan traditions that honoured Justin’s beliefs and their shared journey.

Central to their ceremony was a rune altar featuring a stone carved with 12 Elder Futhark runes. Each rune was carefully chosen to represent their hopes and dreams for the future. In Norse mythology, Odin’s sacrifice to uncover the wisdom of the runes speaks to devotion and insight, a tale that resonated deeply with Mel and Justin. This rune altar stood as a testament to their commitment, imbued with the metaphysical energy of faith.

Ring Warming: A Community Blessing

In a touching gesture, Mel and Justin invited their loved ones to take part in a ring-warming ritual. Their wedding bands were passed from guest to guest, allowing everyone to silently bless the rings with love, positivity, and good intentions. By the time the rings reached the couple, they were infused with the collective support and affection of everyone present.

Handfasting: Tying the Knot — Literally

To honour an ancient European tradition, Mel and Justin included a Handfasting ritual. With a plaited cord that Mel had crafted herself in hues of purple, green, and gold, their hands were bound together, symbolising their unity. The cord was adorned with charms of Hugin and Munin (Odin’s ravens) and Yggdrasil, the World Tree, encapsulating their connection to each other and the Norse cosmos.

Raising a Rune Stone: A Tradition Reborn

As a powerful finale, Mel and Justin revived the ancient Norse custom of rune raising. On a slab of Irish limestone, they carved symbols representing their union and their shared hopes for the future. In a ceremony not seen in England for centuries, the couple unveiled the stone to their guests, symbolising the permanence of their love. The raised rune stone stood as a monument to their marriage, a bridge between ancient traditions and modern love.

Crystals and Cosmic Energy

Throughout the day, crystals added an extra layer of magic and meaning to the celebration. Strategically placed around the venue, they infused the atmosphere with their unique energies:

• Aventurine: Invited prosperity and luck.
• Amethyst: Brought clarity and wisdom.
• Rose Quartz: Symbolised unconditional love.
• Clear Quartz: Amplified positivity and balance.

These weren’t just decorative accents; they were intentional, spiritual elements that mirrored the couple’s journey.

A Feast for the Ages

After the ceremony, guests were treated to a banquet in the castle’s magnificent Great Hall. With its soaring ceilings and historic grandeur, the setting was nothing short of magical. The tables, adorned with jewel-toned florals, candlelight, and crystals, exuded warmth and charm.

The menu was a delightful blend of tradition and indulgence. Guests dined on dishes like Cauliflower Cheese Risotto with black truffle, Loin of Venison, and a trio of decadent desserts: Sticky Toffee Pudding, Apple Crumble Cake, and Pecan Pie. Later in the evening, a hog roast ensured everyone’s appetites were satisfied long into the night. 

Gaming, Mead, and Tarot: Unique Touches

Mel and Justin’s wedding wouldn’t have been complete without nods to their shared passions. After dinner guests were treated to a guided tour of some of the fortress. In the castle’s drawing room, guests found a haven of fun and relaxation. There were gaming stations featuring their favourite titles (yes, Elder Scrolls Online made an appearance), a mead-tasting bar, and even tarot card readings. These thoughtful touches made the day not only deeply personal but endlessly entertaining.

Dancing into Their Next Chapter

As the evening unfolded, the celebration culminated in Mel and Justin’s first dance in the Great Hall. From the confetti shot in the courtyard to the late-night revelry, every moment was infused with love and light.

A Love Rooted in Authenticity

Mel and Justin’s Norse Pagan wedding was more than a celebration of their union; it was a reflection of their values, passions, and unwavering bond. Their relationship, built on friendship, mutual respect, and shared adventures, shone brightly throughout the day. Despite the challenges they’ve faced — from long-distance love to health struggles — their resilience and devotion have only grown stronger.

Their wedding at Berkeley Castle was a testament to the beauty of authenticity. By blending ancient traditions with modern personal touches, they created a day that was entirely their own. For anyone dreaming of a wedding that’s as unique as their love story, Mel and Justin’s celebration is proof that magic happens when you stay true to yourself.

Mel and Justin, your wedding was nothing short of legendary. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and epic adventures. Skål!

Suppliers

Photographer & Videographer – Adam & Lucy Drake

Venue – Berkeley Castle

Mel’s Dress – House of Savin from White Lace and Butterflies

Make up & Hair – Make Up with Lauren

Bridesmaids dresses – Sorella Vita at Confetti Bridesmaid

Justin & Groomsman suits – Adrian at The Bespoke Tailor

Rings – Theo & team at Just Castings

Wedding Stylist – Amy at The Joy Eclectic

Florist – Rosy at Filth florist

Celebrant – Miranda the Celebrant

Caterer – Napier Catering

DJ – Oxygen DJs